I'm not sure if her guardian is going to be okay with it? Or if she'd even want to in the first place. I've never really had anyone sleepover here before, so I'm not even sure what to do.
I guess I could do that second one, but I wouldn't really know when to get there to do it. She likes to sleep in a lot...
[IT'S NOT KIDNAPPING IF HER GUARDIAN OKAYS IT, RIGHT?]
You pile all the pillows in the middle of the living room floor with a bunch of soft blankets. You make a ridiculous amount of popcorn and watch movie after movie until you all fall asleep. Take occasional breaks to play games.
[note to self: one way or another, have a sleepover for Xiaolang, this boy has been deprived]
So message her guardian. He is on the network, right? Ask permission and seek input.
Although the way Li-Na described the sleepover sounds awfully familiar...]
... that's a lot like what we did when I went to stay over at her house for New Year's, actually. I mean, our place isn't nearly as big as hers, but I'm sure we have enough extra pillows and comforters to make do. She did seem to be having a lot of fun then, too...
[Not that he could say the same on his behalf-- between being too nervous and confused about his feelings, and accidentally waking her up in the middle of the night due to a memory-related nightmare, it wasn't the best first experience. But they did start calling one another by their first names, so it wasn't SO bad...
but yes, please, give this boy more sleepovers he needs them]
It wouldn't hurt to ask him if she could stay over, but... I do want to do a lot of this myself. He might want to get involved if I ask him for any further advice.
Ah, so you have had a sleepover before. Size is not as important as comfort is. Everyone should be as comfortable as possible. Then you can enjoy yourselves properly.
[one sleepover ever is still not nearly enough for a teenage boy]
So that to tell her guardian. That you want to pamper her and do it all yourself. I know Leon and I would want to respect your wishes in something like this.
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[Look, if he needs help, Li-Na is happy to provide...]
Why not??? Have a sleepover the night before. Or, you could talk to her guardian and go over to her house to make breakfast for her.
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I mean, I don't
I'm not sure if her guardian is going to be okay with it? Or if she'd even want to in the first place. I've never really had anyone sleepover here before, so I'm not even sure what to do.
I guess I could do that second one, but I wouldn't really know when to get there to do it. She likes to sleep in a lot...
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You pile all the pillows in the middle of the living room floor with a bunch of soft blankets. You make a ridiculous amount of popcorn and watch movie after movie until you all fall asleep. Take occasional breaks to play games.
[note to self: one way or another, have a sleepover for Xiaolang, this boy has been deprived]
So message her guardian. He is on the network, right? Ask permission and seek input.
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Although the way Li-Na described the sleepover sounds awfully familiar...]
... that's a lot like what we did when I went to stay over at her house for New Year's, actually. I mean, our place isn't nearly as big as hers, but I'm sure we have enough extra pillows and comforters to make do. She did seem to be having a lot of fun then, too...
[Not that he could say the same on his behalf-- between being too nervous and confused about his feelings, and accidentally waking her up in the middle of the night due to a memory-related nightmare, it wasn't the best first experience. But they did start calling one another by their first names, so it wasn't SO bad...
but yes, please, give this boy more sleepovers he needs them]
It wouldn't hurt to ask him if she could stay over, but... I do want to do a lot of this myself. He might want to get involved if I ask him for any further advice.
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Ah, so you have had a sleepover before. Size is not as important as comfort is. Everyone should be as comfortable as possible. Then you can enjoy yourselves properly.
[one sleepover ever is still not nearly enough for a teenage boy]
So that to tell her guardian. That you want to pamper her and do it all yourself. I know Leon and I would want to respect your wishes in something like this.